Many people who feel unsure of themselves find temporary relief from judging others. Knowing something that others don't know can be empowering, and sometimes that's all an uncertain gossip needs. In essence, gossip is tragically unsafe. Everyone, including you, is a threat to their sense of self.
Gossip has poor ego development and tends to be emotionally labile. They are quick to blame and lack responsibility. They prefer to do the least amount for the highest profit, since they believe that any additional work or responsibility required of them is unfair and unfair. They consider that others intend to make them fail, making gossip go on the defensive.
They feel justified in taking down anyone they consider to be a threat. It has been said that knowledge is power. Unfortunately, many people like to spread harmful information or intimate details about others, whether true or not. This is what is called gossip.
It used to be that people called gossip, that they covered the garbage. Whatever it's called, people use gossip to hurt people, to feel good about themselves and to feel like they have power over others. Consider the reasons for gossip, jealousy, acceptance, and gaining power. They almost always focus on lifting us up by pushing others down.
When you say things about others behind their backs that are hurtful, derogatory and (usually) unconfirmed, it reflects who you are. They think that makes them seem like wonderful people, while gossiping is bad, when in reality it is the opposite in the eyes of God. In general, these are very insecure people who think that belittling another is a way of getting up. The more successful you are, the more attractive, the kinder, the more sure of yourself, the more people will gossip.
If you are surrounded by gossip, the first thing you should realize is that they are harmful people and, eventually, they will be harmful to you. Stay as far away from these people as possible, they have nothing real to say, nothing of value to think about, and they only use you to get you recruited into their team. People gossip to compensate for a lack of self-esteem or self-love and use the same energy and emotion that comes from gossip to create a false form of stability, relevance and superiority in their lives. It is a way of making known that little information that has gradually matured with you: the feeling of insecurity because of your work, the guilt of not being able to see your children succeed, the lack of satisfaction with your own money, relationships, personal achievements and attractiveness.
Not only will you break the gossip chain, but you'll also gain the trust of others, since you won't spread rumors. Guilty and insecure people can also be victims of gossip, but when you have been a victim (and I have been) you know it and your life will NEVER be the same again. I think she gossips about others to try to make her and her family look better than people who do the same as her and her family. The stories they tell are imaginary histrionic stories designed to capture attention and turn a team of people against each other.
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